The Assumptions We Make On the Road

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A wedding in or pueblo of San Pablo Etla, Oaxaca.

Embarking on an experience living abroad is full of surprises, to put it mildly. I for one, LOVE surprises. My husband always gives me a hard time when life gets complicated living abroad, chiding me when things get rough with comments like ” yes, you are the one who wanted to experience “real” Mexico”…but, to experience the true texture of a place, one needs to be ready for the inconvenient, the embarrassing, and the unknown.

The thing is, we arrive with expectations and an uncontrollable personal “ruler” with which we gauge our lives against those of the people who surround us. …It is hard to avoid, and a little ridiculous to assume, that we can shed our histories to participate in a “new” culture without comparing life to what we know. Even after years in Mexico I catch myself making assumptions about people and life in our village. I assume there will always be running water.  I assume people have a cell phones or email addresses. And as for the children, I assume they all can attend school.

The real privilege of living abroad is to experience daily life first hand, in its most raw form, be it  good, bad, or ugly. There is no greater way to appreciate every moment of living than to spend time in a foreign culture where even a trip to the grocery store can be full of challenge and gratification!  I invite you to seek new experiences in life, to build bridges between the familiar and the unknown, and to know a culture other than your own.  

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